Beyond Code: How Empathy and Storytelling Drives Innovation

Learn how storytelling can build empathy, connection & positive outcomes in the tech industry. Discover the power of empathy & active listening in industry storytelling.

Technology always stays the same, we know that, right? I wish, sometimes. However, somewhere along the journey of the rapid evolution of the technology industry, it's all too common to neglect the human impact of what we've created for ourselves and our world. We no longer live in the techno-idealistic world of the early 2010s where everyone believed technology could solve all of our problems. There’s more debate, and stoicism, about how/when/why to change or evolve technology in use.

What if there was a way to use technology to create deeper connections and inspire positive change?

That's where storytelling comes in, and it’s not used nearly as often as it should be. As someone with a background in public office, I've seen firsthand the power of storytelling to build empathy and connection with diverse audiences. As the technology industry continues to grow and evolve, I believe that storytelling will be an ever increasingly important tool for creating meaningful relationships between users, customers, and colleagues.

In this post, I'll explore the role of storytelling in the tech industry, and how it can be used to build empathy, connection, and positive outcomes. I also briefly cover what felt like making an ass of myself in a town election for Mayor.

The Power of Storytelling and What Worked so Far

Stories have been a part of human culture since the beginning of time, and probably for good reason. Our brains are wired to respond to stories, both on a psychological and emotional level. When we hear a story, our brains release oxytocin, a hormone associated with empathy, trust, and social bonding. This is why storytelling is such a powerful tool for building empathy and connection with users, customers, and colleagues in the tech industry – or any industry really.

Effective storytelling (in technology specifically) is like building a bridge between the technology and the people who use it. It helps to demystify the complex concepts and make them more relatable and understandable. Just like a bridge connects two separate places, storytelling can connect two seemingly separate worlds: the world of technology and the world of the user.

Image: Apple's Think Different campaign ads

One of the most successful examples of storytelling in the consumer technology industry is Apple's "Think Different" campaign. The campaign featured iconic figures like Albert Einstein, Martin Luther King Jr, and Mahatma Gandhi. This campaign emphasized Apple's focus on creativity, innovation, and breaking the mold with what they’re doing. By telling a story that resonated with its audience, Apple was able to build a loyal following and establish itself as a brand that values creativity and individuality.

Another example of effective storytelling in the tech industry is Google's "Dear Sophie" ad. The ad featured a father using Google's services to create a digital scrapbook for his daughter, Sophie, from the day she was born. The ad tugs at the heartstrings and creates an emotional connection between the audience and Google's products.

Image: an excerpt from Google's Dear Sophie ad
Storytelling isn't just about marketing, though, it’s more importantly about interpersonal conversations you have every day. Colleagues, friends, customers, whoever.

The power of storytelling is honestly irrefutable from my perspective. By using creative metaphors and analogies to explain complex concepts, and by telling stories that resonate with our audiences, we can create a deeper connection with our users, customers, and colleagues. As we continue to innovate and push the boundaries of what's possible, let's not forget the power of storytelling to inspire, motivate, and unite us all. As anyone who knows me knows, I love a good analogy.

Crafting a Compelling Story

Crafting a compelling story, especially around technology, involves understanding your audience and using the essential elements of character, conflict, and resolution. By creating a character that embodies your target audience's needs, desires, and pain points, you can make your story more relatable and engaging. The conflict should be specific and something that your product or service can help to solve. Finally, the resolution should demonstrate the value of your product or service and show how it has helped to improve the character's life.

Effective storytelling also involves using data and statistics to support the narrative and illustrate the impact of your product or service. By mastering the art of storytelling, you can build empathy and connection with your users, customers, and colleagues.

Using effective storytelling requires a deep understanding of your audience and the ability to communicate complex concepts in an engaging and accessible way. By leveraging the power of storytelling, you can create a deeper connection with your audience, establish your brand as a leader in the industry, and inspire positive change. In the next section, we'll discuss how empathy and connection are critical to building trust and loyalty with your users, customers, and colleagues.

Empathy and Connection in Storytelling

Empathy and connection are crucial to successful storytelling in the tech industry. To create a compelling story, it's essential to understand your audience's needs, desires, and pain points. By using empathy to craft a story that connects with your audience, you can create a shared experience and build a deeper connection.

One effective way to use empathy in tech storytelling is to create a character that embodies the challenges and struggles of your target audience. By demonstrating how your product or service can help solve the character's problems, you create a sense of connection and empathy with your audience. Microsoft's "Empowering Us All" campaign is an excellent example of a tech storytelling campaign that uses empathy to great effect.

CT Sen. Murphy, walks across Connecticut once every year or two. I view this as an incredible storytelling vessel. I walked with him for 5 miles of his 100mi journey through Hampton talking about our needs, wishes, and more. He used the opportunity to actively listen to what was needed, as I was trying to storytell what the community needed.

Having a background in public office, I've witnessed the power of empathy and connection in storytelling firsthand. By sharing personal anecdotes that resonate with the audience and create a shared experience, I've built trust and established myself as a leader in the community. This concept can be applied to an actual community, or more theoretical communities ie in technology or other industries.

I learned throughout that time, though, that successful storytelling requires a deep understanding of the audience and a willingness to listen to their needs and concerns. By using empathy and connection to create stories that resonate with users, customers, and colleagues, you can build a deeper connection and inspire positive change. You can’t do any of that without thoughtful and precise listening first, however.

Implementing Storytelling through Active Listening

Crafting a compelling story around technology is not just about following a formula or ticking off checkboxes. It's about actively listening to your audience and understanding their needs, desires, and pain points. By taking the time to listen and understand, you can create a story that resonates with your audience and inspires them to take action.

One way to actively listen to your audience is to engage in conversations with them, whether in-person or online, with intent. By asking questions and truly listening to their responses, you can identify their most pressing concerns and craft a story that speaks to those needs. Additionally, when meeting with customers or colleagues, incorporating personal anecdotes and examples can help to make your story more relatable and engaging.

You are a person, and it’s people who use technology. It doesn’t just have to be cold hard facts about Kubernetes and Linux all the time. What I meant by “intent” earlier, is don’t just check the box and say you talked with someone. Ask yourself why you want to meet with that person, what you hope to gain, and what you hope you can help them gain as well.

It's important to understand that effective storytelling is an ongoing process. By continually seeking feedback and incorporating it into your story, you can refine and improve your approach. Through active listening, personal anecdotes, and a commitment to continuous improvement, you can create a story that truly resonates with your audience and inspires them to take action. The photo I shared of Sen. Murphy and I is an attempt to outline how active storytelling and active listening go hand in hand.

The Adventure and Future of Storytelling in Technology

As technology continues to evolve, so too does the role of storytelling in the tech industry. New technologies and platforms are changing the way we tell stories and engage with audiences. For example, virtual reality, augmented reality, and artificial intelligence are all new frontiers opening up new possibilities for immersive storytelling experiences.

To stay ahead of the curve in technology focused storytelling, it's important to be adaptable and agile. This means staying up to date on emerging technologies and platforms and exploring how they can be leveraged to tell more compelling stories. You can’t tell a story on yesterday’s technology – aside from a good war story. Furthermore, it's important to remain focused on the continued developing needs and desires of your audience and to actively listen to their feedback and concerns. Yesterday’s problems are just that, yesterdays. Don’t use a snapshot in time to base a year or more worth of strategy off of.

One of my early campaign ads from my election in 2017, when I was 19 and 20.

My journey in the tech industry, just like in life, has had its share of setbacks and challenges. One of the most defining moments was when I lost my election for Mayor by 67 votes at 20 years old. It was a difficult and humbling experience, one that left me feeling defeated and uncertain about the future. As I look back on that moment, I realize that it was a crucial turning point that helped me to grow and learn in ways that I never thought possible.

In many ways, setbacks are the catalysts for growth and change. They test our mettle, challenge our assumptions, and push us to our limits. As we overcome these obstacles, we emerge stronger, wiser, and more resilient than before. Through these experiences, we gain the courage and confidence to continue telling stories that inspire positive change and unite us all.

So if you ever find yourself facing a setback or a challenge in your own journey, know that it is not the end of the story. Rather, it is just the beginning of a new chapter that holds endless possibilities for growth and transformation

While it's never easy to face a setback or a challenge, it's important to press forward and remain committed to the journey. By doing so, we can continue to create stories that inspire positive change and unite us all.

Wrap-up

Modern technology has consistently been an undeniable force that has shaped our world in more ways than could ever be counted, but we have the power to shape the use of the technology we create through the stories we tell. By using storytelling to build empathy and connection with your audience, you can transform products, services, even political candidates(!) into tools that empower, inspire, and unite those who employ it.

As you share your story, remember the power of storytelling can inspire change, drive progress, and make a positive impact on the world but it all depends on how you express it. The future is not solely defined by our ability to build technology, but rather, by our ability to leverage technology to build a better world.

Disclaimer: I use Mayor because I got tired of explaining what “First Selectman” is to people not from New England. I ran for First Selectman, which is akin to mayor, where the Board of Selectmen is akin to a town council. It’s a slightly more engaging form of government. New England likes to do things differently in almost every way, for better or for worse.

Notice the first tagline? Listen to your audience! 19 year old me.